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The Mid-Autumn Festival is coming soon, I wish you all a happy Mid-Autumn Festival! How do you feel when you admire the moon? Do you feel calm or bring back a trace of memories? The changes of the moon are not only astronomical phenomena, but also comparable to our emotions and mental health. Our emotions are like the moon, which waxes and wanes. People’s emotions always have ups and downs and will not stay in the same state for a long time, so it is necessary to give yourself space to face your emotions. Many people report significant changes in their mood and mental state during the different moon phases. Here’s a look at the different ways the moon affects our emotions.

 

1. The influence of the moon phase on emotions

– *New Moon*: Symbolizing new beginnings, many people feel energized during this period and are eager to set new goals. This is a time for self-reflection and planning for the future.

– *First Quarter Moon*: Emotions gradually stabilize, and people tend to feel confident and positive, suitable for taking action and facing challenges.

– *Full Moon*: Emotions are at their peak and strong emotional reactions such as anxiety, excitement or uneasiness may occur. Many studies have found that people’s sleep quality decreases during the full moon, leading to mood swings.

– *Last Quarter Moon*: As the moon gradually decreases, emotions become introverted, which is suitable for reflection and release of past emotions, and helps with mental recovery and calmness.

 

2. Support for scientific research

Some scientific research shows that the moon’s brightness and its periodic changes may affect the body’s biological clock, thereby affecting sleep quality and emotional stability. Especially during full moons, reports of anxiety and insomnia increase, showing the potential impact of the moon on mental health.

 

3. How to use the phases of the moon to promote mental health

– *Self-Reflection*: Use the New Moon and Waxing Moon periods for self-reflection, writing down goals and emotions to help release and understand inner feelings.

– *SET GOALS*: Set clear goals during the New Moon and take action during the Waxing Moon.

– *Emotional Regulation*: During the full moon, pay attention to emotional fluctuations and learn to regulate emotions using methods such as meditation or deep breathing.

 

The waxing and waning of the moon is closely related to our emotional and mental health. Whenever you look up at the bright moon in the night sky, you might as well think about the inspiration and influence the moon brings to us, and realize the importance of emotional health. Understanding this can help us better understand ourselves, adopt healthy coping strategies, and find emotional balance in our lives.

Whether in workplace or daily life, interpersonal relationships are an essential part of our lives, closely tied to our mental health. Having good, healthy relationships can bring happiness and joy, and also make our physical, emotional, and mental well-being more stable. In a supportive and caring environment, we are less likely to feel lonely, anxious, or fearful, and can better recover from illnesses and adversity. To build good relationships, you need appropriate social skills to help you get along with others and gain friendships. Here are some tips:

 

1. Build One Relationship at One Time

To establish deep and meaningful relationships, you must take the time to understand the other person and share each other’s lives and thoughts. Trying to develop multiple relationships at once can lead to superficial connections. Focus on building one relationship at a time, through regular communication, sharing experiences, and expressing concern. This will help you gradually increase mutual understanding and trust, laying the foundation for true friendships or partnerships.

 

2. Listen Attentively and Respectfully

During conversations, maintaining an open and patient attitude is crucial. Listen attentively to the other person, without being distracted or preparing own response. Try to understand their thoughts and feelings, giving them ample time to express themselves without interrupting. Even if you disagree, attempt to put yourself in their shoes and listen to their perspective. This allows other people to feel respected and be more willing to listen to you.

 

3. Avoid Criticizing and Blaming

When interacting with others, avoid judging, analyzing, or categorizing them from the beginning. Regardless of the differences in the point of view, avoid using accusatory or critical language, such as “You shouldn’t…” These words can make others feel attacked, leading to tense and unpleasant communication. To avoid misjudging others, try using neutral or objective language and expressions, like “I understand your perspective is…” to ease the conversation.

 

4. Show Appreciation and Admiration

Appreciating others is an essential aspect of social interactions. Admiring others is not about flattering or trying to win them over, but about making them smile. When others feel your kindness, they are more likely to treat others with kindness and be more willing to communicate and interact with you, making conversations more enjoyable and harmonious.

 

5. Don’t Be Afraid to Show Vulnerability

When facing challenges or difficulties, don’t be afraid to show your vulnerability or to seek help. In these moments, be humble and don’t worry about being seen as weak or struggling. When you are willing to be open and honest, others are more likely to open up and offer support, increasing mutual trust and understanding.

 

Building relationships is an art without a formula, and each person has their unique way of communicating and interacting. Hopefully, these tips can help you enjoy the happiness and warmth that comes with social interactions and friendships.

Do you know the impact of addictive behavior?

Addictive behaviors are excessive dependence on an activity or substance that may affect an individual’s quality of life and mental health. From a mental health perspective, there are several steps you can take to understand and address these behaviors:

 

1. Understand addictive behavior

– Definition: Addictive behaviors may include excessive dependence on alcohol, drugs, the Internet, food, gambling, etc.

– Impact: These behaviors can lead to anxiety, depression, social isolation and physical health problems.

 

2. Identify warning signs

– Mood changes: When feeling anxious, depressed, or empty, you may seek out indulgent behaviors as an escape.

– Behavioral changes: Begins to neglect work, school, or relationships and devote too much time to certain activities.

 

3. Seek support

– Professional help: Counseling, therapy or support groups can provide necessary assistance.

– Social support: Share feelings with family and friends and seek their understanding and support.

 

4. Substitute behavior

– Healthy activities: Find other activities that bring joy and satisfaction, such as exercise, art, or reading.

– Time management: Arrange time reasonably to avoid overindulgence in a certain activity.

 

5. Self-reflection

– Journal: Record changes in mood and behavior to help identify triggers.

– Goal setting: Set short-term and long-term personal goals to help yourself stay focused.

 

6. Lifestyle adjustments

– Balanced diet: A healthy diet can help improve your mood and physical state.

– Get proper rest: Ensure adequate sleep and rest to reduce stress.

 

Recognizing addictive behaviors and taking effective treatment methods can improve one’s mental health. Ongoing self-reflection and seeking support are important steps in overcoming these behaviors.

Learning and playing are often two opposite things. We frequently hear elders say: read carefully when studying, and play thoroughly when playing. But can you only choose one of the two, or can you do both simultaneously?

 

In daily life, study and work responsibilities are often overwhelming. We hope to continuously improve ourselves and cope with various examinations and work challenges. However, if we only focus on studying hard and ignore the entertainment and relaxation in life, wouldn’t it be difficult to maintain a good physical and mental state and face various tasks?

 

To maintain a good physical and mental condition, it is equally important to balance study and entertainment. While setting learning goals, you can reasonably plan your learning time for yourself. Endless homework and review will make us suffocated, but as long as we learn to make reasonable arrangements and perform study, work, and entertainment in their respective duties in an orderly manner, we can also achieve a balance. For example, you can divide the day into several periods, using the morning for study and work and leaving time for recreational activities in the afternoon. Or arrange some short rest time after work to regulate your body and mind through yoga, meditation, and other methods. As long as time is used effectively, learning and entertainment can coexist harmoniously.

 

In addition, the fun in learning can also make our learning process novel and interesting. I once heard an interesting saying that learning an instrument is described as playing music in English grammar. The hidden meaning expresses that learning music is an enjoyable process. Understanding the melody and knowledge in the music score also incorporates interesting elements into the learning process to stimulate enthusiasm and motivation for learning. Finally, playing music is not only a fun experience but also provides unexpected gains and improvements in the process.

 

After busy study and work, making time to enjoy life will help us get twice the result with half the effort. Only by finding a balance between study and play can we maintain physical and mental health and better devote ourselves to study and work.

 

You’ve been busy all day today, it’s time for play!

The day of the announcement of the DSE result is coming. Meanwhile, it is telling the students that secondary school life has come to an end. With the new chapter in life, the process is full of unknowns. Let’s look at how to adjust our mindset with some tips below.

1.Understand more about your result
On the day when the results are released, thousands of thoughts may run through your mind when you are holding the results. “Need to study ASSO right away?” “Do I gain enough marks on applying for the ideal subjects?” Before releasing the results, you can preview the choices you will make with different scores and simulate the situation after you get the results that day. For example, use a chart to write down your ideal and least ideal scores, and compare them with your expected goals. Make backup plans. If you plan to continue your studies, you should think of several subjects that are interesting and suitable for you, so as not to be affected by the results on the day when the results are released, which will affect your mentality and then affect your ability to make decisions. At the same time, remember to prepare the documents required for the results day one or two days in advance so that you can face it calmly.

2.Objectively analyze your performance
We may only experience this critical moment of results release once in our lifetime. Students are wise to review the entire preparation process, affirm their dedication and efforts, and also recognize areas that need improvement. The score only reflects the ability to attend the examination, but your own efforts and mental adjustment during the process are the experiences that accompany your growth. Students can focus on whether profound things linger in their minds during the past few years of preparing for DSE. Those memories are also an important part of middle school life.

3.Find support and advice
Remember that you are not alone. If you have any doubts, you may wish to take the initiative to talk to your family, teachers, and friends and listen to their support. There will always be times when a person is in trouble. You might as well share your problems or troubles with others. Different ideas may emerge. This is also very important to adjust our mentality and formulate long-term plans.

4.Appreciate yourself
Finally, it is time to appreciate your efforts over the past few years in secondary school! Achievements are only one-sided performances. On the contrary, the entire middle school career experience is not only about studying but also the personal growth experiences. An ending represents another beginning. On the eve of the release of the results, let’s invite friends to play around, relax and relieve stress, and say farewell to secondary school life and welcome to a new beginning.